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I Acknowledge the strength that it takes to seek out therapy and hope to ease any concerns and guide you through the process of coming to therapy. Services are available in person or via teletherapy (online/phone) for Ontario Residents.


EMDR Certified EMDR Member

Welcome

Taking the first step toward therapy can feel overwhelming, and I want to acknowledge the courage and strength it takes to reach out for support. My goal is to help create a space where you feel comfortable, understood, and supported throughout the therapeutic process. Whether you are beginning therapy for the first time or returning after previous experiences, I strive to make the process feel approachable, collaborative, and grounded in compassion.

I offer therapy services for teens and adults across Ontario through both in-person sessions and secure virtual therapy (online). Together, we work at a pace that feels safe and manageable while exploring the challenges that may be impacting your well-being and daily life.

I support individuals experiencing anxiety, stress, burnout, depression, trauma and PTSD, phobias, relationship difficulties, emotional overwhelm, and a variety of life transitions and stressors. My approach is client-centred, trauma-informed, and tailored to your unique needs, helping you build insight, coping strategies, and lasting emotional resilience.

You do not have to navigate difficult experiences alone. Therapy can be a place to reconnect with yourself, strengthen coping skills, and move toward healing and meaningful change.

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How can I Help

Learn more about me as well as the various methods we can utilize to assist you in your journey of mental well-being

  • About Me

    Emily is a Registered Social Worker and trauma-focused therapist with extensive experience supporting individuals navigating trauma, anxiety, addiction, relationship challenges, emotional dysregulation, and complex nervous system responses. Her work is grounded in evidence-based, trauma-informed care and shaped through both extensive clinical experience and ongoing professional development.

    Emily completed her Master’s of Social Work at the University of Windsor in 2019 and is registered with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers. She is also a member of the Ontario Association of Social Workers, EMDR Canada, and EMDR International Association (EMDRIA).

    Emily has completed advanced training in EMDR therapy and is EMDRIA Certified, with specialized education in complex trauma, dissociation, ego states/parts work, attachment, polyvagal theory, addictions, suicidality, and nervous system regulation. Her therapeutic approach is integrative and individualized, drawing from EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS)-informed work, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and somatic and trauma-informed approaches.

    She is deeply committed to lifelong learning and regularly engages in advanced training and clinical consultation to continue strengthening the care she provides to clients.

    Emily’s professional background includes individual therapy, crisis intervention, domestic violence counselling, addictions work, trauma treatment, group facilitation, and program development across both community and private practice settings. She has also contributed to research and initiatives related to trauma, addiction, and domestic violence.

    At the core of Emily’s work is a warm, compassionate, and collaborative approach. She strives to create a space where clients feel safe, understood, and genuinely supported as they navigate healing, self-understanding, and meaningful change at a pace that feels manageable and empowering.

  • Training

    - EMDR with Substance Use & Co-Occurring Addictive Behaviours (2026)
    - EMDR Distancing Technique for Anxiety & OCD (2025)
    - EMDR Treatment for Adult Survivors of Sexual Abuse (2025)
    - Internal Family Systems (IFS)-Informed Trauma & Addiction Treatment (2024)
    - Mental Health, Suicide & Crisis Management (2024)
    - Anxiety Certification: CBT & Exposure Response Prevention for OCD, Panic & Anxiety Disorders (2024)
    - Polyvagal & Felt Sense Approaches for Couples and Families (2024)
    - EMDR & Complex Disorders Training (2024)
    - EMDRIA Certified Therapist (2023)
    - Dissociation & Parts Work with EMDR (2023)
    - Ego States Therapy Training (2023)
    - EMDR for Dissociative Clients (2022)
    - Advanced Stabilization Skills for Complex Dissociation (2022)
    - Polyvagal Approaches to Trauma & Addiction Treatment (2022)
    - Advanced Flash Technique & Flash Technique for Trauma Processing (2022)
    - DeTUR Protocol for Addictions & Urge Reduction (2021)
    - EMDR Basic Training (2021)
    - DBT for Suicidality, Self-Harm & Addictions (2021)
    - Traumatic Incident Reduction – Intensive Training (2020)
    - Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) Certification (2020)
    - Compassionate Inquiry Training (2020)
    - Addictions Certificate (2019)
    - Traumatology Certificate (2019)
    - CBT for Couples, Families & Children (2019)
    - Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) (2018)
    - Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) Certificate (2017)
    - Healing Complex Trauma Through Indigenous Teachings (2016)
    - Working with High-Risk Domestic Violence Offenders (2015)
    - Caring Dads Facilitator Training (2015)
    - Partner Assault Response Group Facilitator Training (2014)

  • My Approach

    When first sitting down with clients, I strive to create a space where you feel comfortable, supported, and genuinely heard. I am here to listen to whatever you feel ready and comfortable sharing, at your own pace.

    The first couple of sessions are often focused on getting to know you — your history, your experiences, and what has brought you to therapy. From there, we begin discussing your goals and exploring how therapy may best support you. Together, we create a plan that feels collaborative and tailored to your unique needs, determining which therapeutic approaches and modalities may be the best fit.

    For clients who have attended therapy before, I am also interested in learning what has felt helpful in the past, as well as what may not have worked as well for you. This helps us shape our work together in a way that feels effective, safe, and meaningful. We move at a pace that feels manageable while gently exploring the areas that may be keeping you feeling stuck.

    As a clinician, I deeply value creating an environment free from judgment — one where clients feel safe enough to explore difficult emotions, experiences, and parts of themselves with compassion and curiosity.

    Trauma treatment is the primary focus of my practice and has naturally become a specialty area over time. I feel very grounded and comfortable working within this space. I welcome individuals with sensitive nervous systems, disconnected or overwhelmed nervous systems, and everything in between. My goal is to help you better understand what is happening within you, allowing you to make sense of your experiences rather than feel controlled by them.

    I believe that understanding ourselves can be deeply empowering. I aim to help clients stay in the driver’s seat of their healing journey, while I act as a compassionate guide and co-facilitator — offering support, direction, and tools when needed along the way.

    While some parts of the work may feel serious and deeply reflective, there are also moments where the work feels lighter. I believe humor, warmth, and genuine connection all have an important place in the therapeutic process. I strive to ensure my clients feel supported, understood, and accepted as they navigate their healing journey.

    My approach has been shaped through both personal and professional experience, allowing me to bring authenticity, compassion, and practicality into the work we do together. I do my best not to overcomplicate the healing process. At its core, therapy is about connection, understanding, and creating meaningful change in a way that feels manageable and grounded. I also bring a strong memory and genuine heart for this work, which helps me hold onto the important details of my clients’ stories and experiences with care.

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  • Support offered to Individuals / Families with the following Issues:

    Anxiety Anger Management Binge Eating Disorder Borderline Personality Disorder
    Body Image Boundary Setting Communication Skills Depression
    Domestic Abuse Emotional Regulation General Stress Grief
    Life Skills Trauma Parenting Challenges Perfectionism
    Self-Esteem Self-Harm Sexual Assault Social Anxiety
    Substance Use Suicidal Ideation Trauma Work or School Stress
  • Teletherapy

    Teletherapy is offered via OnCall Health a secure and encrypted platform to provide on-line counselling sessions with clients.

    Directly after scheduling their first appointment clients will receive an email invite to register with OnCall Health. Clients are also sent email reminders on the day of their scheduled appointment with a link to click on at the scheduled time of their appointment.

    Clients simply join the on-line video counselling session by clicking on this link at the time of their scheduled appointment. Sessions are anonymous and are never recorded or stored. On-line video counselling works well when clients are not available for in-office visits due to scheduling issues, inclement weather, immobilization due medical condition(s), etc. and prefer the visual cues that come with video.

FAQ

Therapy sessions typically begin with exploring questions about your feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. You will also be asked about your history and specific challenges you are facing. Sessions are a safe space for you to express yourself without judgment. My role as a therapist is to orient you as to what you can expect from me, suggest treatment options/modalities, offer feedback, coping strategies, or insights to help you better understand yourself or manage your difficulties.

The duration of therapy depends on your individual goals and needs. Some people may feel better after just a few sessions, while others may benefit from longer-term therapy. It can also depend on the type of therapy being used (e.g., Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), EMDR therapy, etc.). This is something that will be discussed within the first few sessions.

Most people start with weekly sessions, but this can vary depending on your needs, schedule, and goals. As you progress, your therapist may suggest reducing the frequency to biweekly or monthly.

In my practice, I use a variety of therapeutic approaches, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), EMDR therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness-based therapy, and others. The specific approach will depend on your concerns, preferences, and the therapist's expertise.

Trauma therapy is a type of therapy designed to help individuals process and heal from experiences of trauma. Trauma can be the result of various events, such as abuse, accidents, violence, loss, or other distressing experiences. The goal of trauma therapy is to help you understand the impact of these experiences, reduce emotional and psychological distress, and develop healthier coping strategies.

Trauma therapy is a type of therapy designed to help individuals process and heal from experiences of trauma. Trauma can be the result of various events, such as abuse, accidents, violence, loss, or other distressing experiences. The goal of trauma therapy is to help you understand the impact of these experiences, reduce emotional and psychological distress, and develop healthier coping strategies.

Yes, therapy is confidential within the limits of the law. This means that what you discuss in therapy is generally not shared with others without your consent, except in cases where there is a risk of harm to yourself or others, or if there is a legal obligation (e.g., court orders or child abuse). Your therapist will explain the limits of confidentiality at the beginning of treatment.

Many insurance plans cover therapy, but coverage can vary depending on your provider and plan. It's a good idea to check with your insurance company to verify coverage details, including co-pays, out-of-pocket costs, and any limitations on the number of sessions.Please note, direct billing is possible for Victim Services, Veterans Affairs Canada (VAC), Canadian Armed Forces (CAF) and Non Insured Native Health Benefits (NIHB)

No, therapy can be helpful for many people, even if they don't have a specific problem. People may seek therapy for self-improvement, personal growth, improving relationships, managing stress, or dealing with life transitions.

Yes, therapy is highly effective for treating mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other emotional or psychological challenges. Different therapeutic approaches may be used, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for anxiety or mindfulness techniques for stress management or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for trauma processing.

No, therapy is beneficial for anyone seeking personal growth, managing everyday stress, improving relationships, or addressing emotional or psychological challenges, regardless of their severity.

You might consider therapy if you are struggling with feelings of sadness, anxiety, stress, or confusion, or if you're facing significant life challenges (e.g., divorce, loss of a loved one, job stress). Therapy can also be helpful if you're feeling stuck or want to better understand yourself and improve your emotional well-being.

This is a common question, and we can explore it together. You don’t need to have the answer right away. We’ll take into account your background, current challenges, and goals. From there, we can discuss treatment options, therapy frequency, different modalities, and the best ways to support you. In my practice, it’s not unusual for me to use multiple approaches when working with clients.

It’s common for people to have hesitations about certain topics. You can discuss your discomfort as you feel ready to do so. It is my intention to create a safe, nonjudgmental space and can work with you to address sensitive issues at your own pace.

You may notice changes in how you think, feel, or behave. You might feel more self-aware, have better coping skills, or find that your mood improves. The ultimate goal of trauma processing is to help resolve the emotional impact of the event. Throughout our work together, we assess treatment outcomes regularly to ensure that it is working for you.

Fees and Insurance


Sessions can be paid for through various means. I accept cash, cheques, e-transfers . I am an approved provider for for VQRP+ (Victim Quick Response Program) and Veterans Affairs Canada (VAC), Non Insured Native Health Benefits (VIHB) and Canadian Armed Forces (CAF)
  1. Victim Quick Response Program
  2. First Nations & Inuit Mental Health Benefits
  3. Veterans Affairs Canada
My services are also covered by many extended health benefits that you may receive through your employer. I encourage you to contact your benefit provider/ EAP program or human resources department directly to inquire if your benefits extend to a Registered Social Worker.
*As of September 26th, 2012, counselling services provided by Registered Social Workers (RSW) can be claimed as a medical expense tax deduction when you file your income tax return. In other words, RSW’s are now authorized as “medical practitioners” for the purpose of claiming medical expenses.

Phone

519-355-0282

Email

emilyaspagnolo@gmail.com
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